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January 4, 2020

Cherishing What I Have in Life

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May I cherish what I have in life

I’ve talked about the comparison game before. Especially these days, when everything is posted for the world to see, it’s so hard not to compare yourself to others. I feel like every year I tell myself to stop comparing myself. This year, instead of using the word “stop,” which is a negative, I’m going to set my intention to a positive. I want to really learn the value of cherishing what I have in life.

No matter how successful you are, there will always be someone you feel is more successful. No matter how pretty you are, there will always be someone you feel is prettier. No matter how amazing your life is, there will also be a life you think is better. At least, this has been the case for me. In 2020, I want to learn to cherish what I have. I want to be thankful for my successes. I want to be grateful for the body I was given. I want to learn that even though my life isn’t “perfect” I am so very lucky to have the life that I’m living.

 

“The grass is always greener
where you water it.”
— Neil Barringham
I’m actually really excited about Instagram likes going away this year. I think that will really help me, as well as so many other, deal with the insecurities of comparison. I’ve also found that keeping a gratitude journal helps with cherishing what you have in life versus wanting more. I’m going to really try to get back to my daily gratitude writings this year.
I’d love to hear if you have any wellness practices that have helped you!

Sydne Style wears tadashi shoji sweetheart neckline tulle gown

Sydne Style wears tadashi sweetheart neckline mermaid gown

PHOTOS BY MUNOPIA · GLAM BY IAN MAXION · DRESS: Tadashi Shoji

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  1. Nina commented:

    Love this! Great attitude going into the New Year. Love seeing all the behind the scene details (what it take to get the shot, close up details on your clothes, etc). Great content! 👍 @ninaprao

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    • Sydne commented:

      Thanks so much Nina!

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  2. Kim H commented:

    Would love to see reminders of gratitude and positivity!
    @skyejaden

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    • Sydne commented:

      For sure!

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  3. Jordan Perkins commented:

    Wowowow that dress! Love the green!

    Would love to see celeb dupes for less

    @jordantroublefield

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    • Sydne commented:

      Thanks for the input Jordan!

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  4. Erika W commented:

    Love this dress on you!! It’s so pretty! Would love to see capsule wardrobes! Insta: pinkandgreenmom

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    • Sydne commented:

      Love that idea thank you!

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  5. Megha Agrawal commented:

    Lovely pics .. hope to see more variety in 2020 …mostly some beach pics
    You have a great gallery !!

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    • Sydne commented:

      My happy place!

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  6. Annie commented:

    Indeed a great message. When we cherish what we already have, we have less time to worry about what we don’t. I always try to talk to myself when I feel insecure and wanting more. I tell myself there will always be things I don’t have, but do I really have to own everything?! It works for me 😇
    ~aprilbornie

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    • Sydne commented:

      Love that! I have to tell myself that as well

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  7. Jessica Staley commented:

    This if so beautiful the color is gorgeous. I would love to see y’all show us some easy hair styles. I love all the content y’all do share. My Instagram handle is @jess2kays

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    • Sydne commented:

      Thanks Jess!

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  8. Sandy Weinstein commented:

    @eview1 you look fabulous, as usual, your shots looks so professional, the background, your stance, how you show off the style of the dress, as well as how beautiful you look in your clothes. i would like to see more skin care that helps with anti aging, how to combat wrinkles, fine lines and sagging skin with products and cosmetic procedures. i would like like to see things about how to help/combat with the aging process.

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    • Sydne commented:

      Thanks for the input Sandy!

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  9. rana durham commented:

    i want to see more fashion that is associated with different states or different movies you like

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    • rana durham commented:

      @rannydayz commented on ig

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  10. Katie commented:

    That dress is gorgeous!!! I love your day in the life videos! @katie_jo5

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    • Sydne commented:

      Thanks so much! I miss doing those. It was too hard to keep doing them and Instagram Stories. I need a clone!!!

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  11. Kay Burke commented:

    Gorgeous style and thanks for
    Giftaway. Your content is great.
    From @corkrosy

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    • Sydne commented:

      Thank you!

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  12. Kellie Walsh commented:

    Absolutely beautiful dress! I love a variety of everything to mix it up but mostly all kinds of fashion pieces!! IG: kellietoby

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    • Sydne commented:

      thanks Kellie!

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  13. Shirley commented:

    I have found your insta page today and I immediately felt this connection..like where have you been the past 20 years to help me get dress..not too flashy..so much style?!! I am in my 40s now and feel so young and full of energy inside but the mirror shows otherwise..I needed some inspiration to start this new stage of my life.. new style to make me look and feel good and you did it thank you..much love.

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